








So we won against Iceland and musa is now an idol, almost every 9ja babe now want to marry musa or be his baby mama.
Anyway I pray we win or at least get a draw but truth be told, we don’t have a single world class player and our coach is not good enough so it won’t be easy for Nigeria.
To win we must take the game to the Argentines and not just run around like headless chickens like we did against Croatia.
If we want to get a good result then Nigeria MUST score first and defend, if Argentina score first then forget it. If we play well we will get a draw bc that’s all we need to qualify. I don’t see Nigeria winning against Argentina today, the best result we will get is a draw which to me is not too bad.
TOP REASONS WHY NIGERIA IS IN TROUBLE
1. Messi would like to prove haters wrong today.
2. In the bible the messiah rose on the third day. So messi will be merciless today.
3. Argentina has many world class players, fifa and the referee will want to protect such players.
4. Video Assisted Referee (VAR) only favours big teams like Argentina abi una no watch Portugal, Spain and Morocco games yday?
With most international pundits and even the international media already writing off Nigeria, the Super Eagles need to be very careful in how they approach today’s final game. If anything, yesterday’s matches showed that when the occasion is grand, the smaller teams suffer from the decisions of the VAR, compared to the big teams.
This World Cup have had it’s share of upsets and I dare say our boys would write their names in the annals of upsets today. It’s up to them to at least avoid defeat and scale to the round of sixteen.
Finally, if Nigeria win today I will run from my village to Owerri butt naked, I will upload the photos here so stay tuned





The talk on sexual abuse has lingered on for some time now and still little or nothing is being done about it.
This undesired sexual behavior has totally become worse than a vice in the sense that, almost every girl out there has been or will still be a victim. In Nigeria alone, records show that sexual abuse has become a daily thing with the perpetrators of this heinous act of suppressing, intimidating and even threatening their victims not to speak up.
The worst part is that, 80% of people who are sexually abused are kids who are either too scared to tell their experiences or kids who are serving in homes owned by these abusers. In situations like this, they assume that everything done to them by their master is the right thing. Even when they know its wrong, they dare not utter a word. Without mincing words, the society has raised a lot of sexual perverts who are stemmed from either spoilt kids or men who felt controlling their libido wasn’t necessary. Such people grow up to become threats to the society and more so, to the little innocent girl growing.
Sometime ago, the news of a 70 years old man raping (abusing) a girl of 8 years went viral, while other people totally condemned the granny. Some couldn’t help, but throw shades at the girl's mother for neglecting the responsibility of knowing her daughters whereabouts at the given time. Yes, parents should have a fair share of the blame as well. Some kids are totally neglected and not cared for by their parents, who are either pursuing career or money; therefore parents should be on the lookout for their kids and know what happens to them. That neighbour, that uncle; takes that opportunity to do and undo.
Parents should as well be encouraged to have as many kids as they can afford to comfortably take care of. There is nothing nice at all in having 10 kids, when you can’t even feed one with the flimsy excuse of God gave them, God will take care of them. Later on, send them out to these pervert Uncles and Aunties who do
Whatever they wish to them, after all no one is there to speak for them. A lot is happening; one has to be really cautious with our girl kids. Research has shown that Boys are not left out in this. I read a story some time ago where a grown woman who was supposedly Sex starved; preyed on a little boy who lived in her neighbourhood ordering and urging him to do all manner of nasty things in exchange for a little token. What is our world turning into?
Sexual abuse happens every day, yet people speak and write about it on daily basis. Almost every lady has or still has sexual abuse experience as a kid. Some were just attempts and advances, while others were completely abused. The reason some of these victims failed to speak up was fear of being discriminated, condemned and talked about.
Sexual abuse carries with it a long lasting emotional and physical trauma regardless of age. Victims of sexual abuse often internalize their symptoms which often lead to depression, poor self-esteem, and difficulty trusting in relationships, sexual problems and higher risk of substance intake/abuse.
SAY NO TO SEXUAL ABUSE!
LEARN TO SAY NO.
A young Lady is being wooed by a handsome and rich man who is utterly bereft of manners and respect for a lady…who doesn’t hesitate to hit a lady at the slightest provocation…say NO and mean it. Why settle for less when you can actually learn a trade or a skill and in no distant time you’ll be your own boss.
Are you married or perhaps in a relationship. Have you resolved initially to stick to one partner at a time and there are these beautiful/handsome slay queens/kings all over the place…some even go as far as making advances…Say No and mean it.
Above all SAY YES to exploring positive ideas, learning new skills that will better and not batter our conscience, reputation and most importantly our future. YES to getting busy while trying to overcome these addictions. YES to starting from somewhere no matter how small. YES to entrepreneurship. YES to being someone younger ones will gladly emulate. Stay focused and positive.
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Alcohol is highly addictive! The problem is once you become dependent, you may not be able to stop even if it’s killing you! You will helplessly prefer drinking to living. It affects virtually all the organs of the body thereby increasing the risk of liver damage, kidney failures, diabetes, stroke, hypertension, cancers, impotence/infertility, abnormalities and birth defects (if a pregnant mother consumes it) etc.
According to a recent BBC report, over 3 million bottles of codeine are consumed every day in northern Nigeria alone and this is the main reason the Federal government recently banned any cough syrup that contains codeine. In another report, The Nigerian Senate estimates that as many as three million bottles of codeine syrup are drunk every single day in just two states, Kano and Jigawa.
With the high rate of mental illness across Nigeria due to alcohol and drug abuse, I just wonder what Nigeria will look like in 10 years time. And the sad thing is, once someone develops a mental problem in Nigeria his or her family will blame witches, enemies or village people. Its sad and pathetic.
Did you also know that alcohol and drug abuse affects the mind, emotion and could also lead to difficulty in relationship with others, domestic violence, broken homes, challenges in workplace, academic problems, poor religious commitments, sleep problems, sex issues, accidents, depression, outburst of anger etc the list is just endless.
Excessive Alcohol intake has made beer parlor business a very lucrative one. I know of some people who just don’t feel the same if they go a day without taking alcohol. Infact a man once said and I quote ”How do i survive without alcohol? Really? Also take a look at another man’s budget for the month… He earns 100k monthly and his budget goes thus…Feeding allowance 20k…The children’s school fees 20k and the rest goes to alcohol. To the disgust of their loved ones, they tend to be unapologetic as they helplessly prefer drinking to living. Alcoholism drains a man financially emotionally and otherwise.
Those in the rural areas are not left out in this addiction. Growing up in the village, youths do all kinds of menial jobs in the daytime ranging from cutting of palm fruits, bricklayer jobs, farming and so on just to squander the money in the evening at a local beer parlour.
In some villages also there are places where people gather to drink this locally made dry gin (ogogoro). People troop in to places like this when they can not afford beer to satisfy this alcohol urge…Men Women young men and young women alike.
An aged woman I once knew who took to alcohol (the ogogoro type) as a lifestyle. She would frequent these areas as soon as the cock crows, with or without money. Her Children did all in their power to stop her but every effort proved abortive. She continued pouring this chemical-like substance into her body even without proper food until her poor body couldn’t take it anymore as the alcohol completely dried up all the blood in her body, she was as white as paper and she gave up.
Loosening the grip of alcohol on your life and health may be a long gradual process with failures that may make you feel powerless and weak-willed, but, never give up. Admit that you have a problem with alcohol and that you need help. List the benefits of stopping, and make a commitment to stop drinking. Avoid and get rid of every source of temptations. Find new ways of thinking and living.
Prepare for alcohol urges, cravings and triggers. If you must drink, please drink water! if it must be in a bottle please drink bottled water.
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THE PARABLE OF THE PENCIL
As Nigeria face numerous challenges on many fronts these days, one must go out today to be part of her solutions and not part of her problems. It is only by contributing to any and every community you find yourself that you can be an asset, don’t be a liability or make a waste of your life, time, energy or talents. There is a moral lesson in this parable of the pencil. The pencil maker took the pencil aside, just before putting it into the box. “There are five things you need to know” he told the pencil, “Before I send you to be held in someone’s hand”
One: “You’ll be able to do many great things, but only if you allow yourself to be held in someone’s hand”.
Two: You will experience a painful sharpening from time to time, but you’ll need it to become a better pencil”.
Three: “You will be able to correct any mistakes you might make”.
Four: “The most important part of you will always be what’s on the inside”. And
Five: ” On every surface you are used on, you must leave your mark. No matter the condition, you must continue to write”.
The pencil understood and promised to remember, and went into the box with purpose in its heart. Now see yourselves as the pencil. Always remember them and never forget and you will become the best person you can be.
One “You will be able to do many great things, only if you allow yourself to be held in God’s hand, and allow other human beings to access you for the many gifts you possess”.
Two “You will experience a painful sharpening from time to time by going through various problems in life, but you need it to become a stronger person”.
Three “You will be able to correct any mistakes you might make”.
Four “The most important part of you will always be what’s on the inside”. And
Five “On every surface you walk through, you must leave your mark. No matter the situation, you must continue to do your duties”.
Allow this parable of the pencil to encourage you to know that you are a special person and only you can fulfill the purpose for which you were born to accomplish. Never allow yourself to get discouraged and think that your life is insignificant and cannot make a change. REMEMBER…… Life is an echo, it gives you back everything you say or do. Our life is simply a reflection of our actions. If you want more love in this world, create more love in your heart. If you want more competence in your team, improve your competence. This relationship applies to everything in all aspects of life; life will give you back everything you have given to it. Your life is not a coincidence…..,it’s a reflection of you.
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